7 Easy Tips on How I Created My Personal Style

April 17, 2019
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People often ask me how did I figure out my style and why do I wear what I wear. The truth is it took me a while to figure out my current style. Keep in mind that style is like most things, it has its ebbs and flows. I started out by wearing true vintage from head to toe and I had a lot of fun with it. That is until I realized it really didn't suit my lifestyle, my budget, or my current state of mind. 

These days I blend true vintage pieces with modern vintage inspired pieces and retro pieces for good measure. I mix it all up and I stick to two simple rules I have given myself: it has to be pleasing to my eyes and it has to be comfy. If the aesthetic of the colors or pieces don't make me feel good then I will not wear it. I also have a color palette that I stick to. My main colors are red, green, and blue. My secondary colors are white, black, grey, and occasionally yellow. 

Having a color palette and sticking to my two rules allows me to to mix and match my pieces easily while always feeling both cute and comfy in what I am wearing. I cannot deny that wearing true vintage makes me feel amazing but I also have found it challenging to wear true vintage while out with my family. My children are young and active and I wanted to create a style for myself that felt true to my love of vintage all the while versatile enough so that I can join family activities without feeling like I was overdressed or going to destroy a vintage piece.

My last tip is to remember to have fun. If you aren't enjoying the process and it becomes too overwhelming then take a step back. Look through what you already have and play around with it some more. 

My Tips on How I Created My Own Personal Style:

1- Understand that style will come in its ebbs and flows
2- Be open to change and to working with where you are in your 
life at that given moment
3- Work with your budget and lifestyle, not against it
4-Try blending vintage pieces with modern pieces. 
Play around with the various types of fashion out there.
5- Create a color palette for yourself. What are the colors that look best on you and 
that you love. Choose three main colors and a few secondary colors.
6- Think cute and comfy. It should be pleasing to your eye all the while being 
incredibly comfortable. If you aren't comfortable with what you are wearing then it will show.
7- Have fun with experimenting with fashion.

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Outfit: Plaid Dress from Modcloth, Blue Cardigan from Gap, Beret from Forever 21, 
Gold Loop Earrings from JCrew, and Heart Key Necklace from Cats Like Us


A Vintage Nerd Book Club: Movies Are Magic

April 10, 2019
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One of my passions is sharing my love for Old Hollywood and Classic Film with others. There is no denying that movies can be a magical place to visit. I do my best to share my joy of film with my own children. We even have weekly movie nights where we introduce them to movies they have never seen before. My hope is that they will grow up to appreciate this form of art and style of storytelling and share it with others.

Film has a unique was of tapping into the story of our own humanity. Whether that is in watching Marilyn Monroe strut her stuff in The Seven Year Itch (1955) or watching Jack Lemmon fumble his way through Manhattan in The Out-of-Towners (1970). Films captivate us, move us, scare us, and make us think. And all the while still maintaining its magic.

When I came across the book Movies Are Magic I knew it would be the ideal read for my children. The book gives a basic introduction to the history of film making and shares some key points in Old Hollywood history as well. Every section has accompanying illustrations that are absolutely adorable. This book doesn't go into deep detail but it does give a look into the things that have made movies special. It introduces Charlie Chaplin and The Nicholas Brothers. It also touches base on how film progressed from moving pictures to color.

I think having access to a little book like this makes introducing classic film to children an easier process. You can find a copy HERE and follow the author Jennifer Churchill HERE.

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** In collaboration with the author Jennifer Churchill**

8 Tips on How I Cope With Challenges

March 28, 2019
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Because we are all different we all will cope with challenges differently. Sometimes we can't ignore whats happening to us so at the end of the day its how we deal with difficulties that makes all the difference.

I get asked a lot how I manage with three young kids and a physical disability. I don't have grandparents whisking them away so that I can get a break, their dad works two jobs, and all my friends have their own busy lives. The reality of my day is that they are almost always with me. I don't mind and luckily we enjoy each others company but of course there are days where I feel like I can't cope and I'm about to explode with frustration and exhaustion.

So how to do I cope with the challenges in my life? I'm going to share what has worked for me.

  1. Let go of the small stuff: I used to obsess with cleaning up and having everything perfectly in order when my first was born. I don't anymore. The house isn't a mess but its decently organized and that's okay. 
  2. Ask for help when you need it: I am not a stubborn person but I am prideful and asking for help isn't always an easy thing for me to do. I want to keep my ability to do as much for myself as I can until the day comes when I can't. I also don't want to be a burden but that has changed albeit slowly. I am learning to ask and to accept the help. It's a work in progress.
  3. Take a deep breath: Actually I take a lot of them. When the pain becomes to much, I stop and I take a deep breath. When the kids aren't listening to me, I stop and take a deep breath. When my eyes are getting tired and I can't continue writing, reading, or finishing a movie (three of my favorite things to do), I stop and take a deep breath and try and sleep. Take deep breathes. Breath in and out slowly and think of nothing but that act. It helps. 
  4. Keep things organized: Even if you aren't an organized person, keeping things simple and in some functioning order will help. Purge the clutter, don't over book your calendar, stop trying to juggle everything. Keep your home, your routine, and everything in your environment as simple as you possibly can. This is alway an ongoing process for me. I am in the middle of spring cleaning currently and I still have a ways to go but when stuff is put in its place and things are as clean as can be it makes a lot of things easier. I am also an environment oriented person so an organized home makes a huge difference in how I feel and how I go about my day-to-day activities.
  5. Just say NO: Don't try to please everyone. Try to please yourself first. Sounds selfish? Well, your sanity is key when dealing with daily challenges like health, finances, relationships, etc.
  6. Pace yourself: I have a schedule in my notes section on my phone for every single day. I write every little thing I have to do, have to remember, and hope to do. If I don't get some things done that day I add it to other days. This way I pace myself and try to check off as much as possible and what I didn't do I just try to do another day. 
  7. Go day by day or hour by hour or minute by minute: Some days I am able to think about tomorrow and plan things in my head. Some days so much is coming at me, so much is on my mind, and my body is just completely drained so on those days I go hour by hour. 
  8. Be kind to yourself: Be proud of yourself for the little things you get done. Whether its the laundry or making a phone call or making it to a meeting on time. Be kind to yourself. Also treat yourself to things throughout the day. Your favorite coffee, a 20 minute break to watch a tv show, or a morning at the nail salon. Be kind to yourself.
We all have challenges coming at us in all directions every single day. Some days feel more bearable than others. My challenges challenge me every moment of the day but they are also a big part of who I am. My family, my disability, my lifestyle. I love my life and thats why I make a conscious choice to look at my difficulties as challenges and to face my challenges with as much kindness and patience as I can. How we deal with our challenges makes all the difference. 

Welcoming Spring with Cats Like Us

March 18, 2019
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Spring is finally in the air and I decided to welcome in style with  Cats Like Us. Cats Like Us is true a"mom and pop" type of shop that not only caters to those who love retro styled fashion but now offers a heap of true vintage pieces. Establish in 2009 in Western New York, Cats Like Us has been making vintage girls everywhere feel their best for years.

As a busy mom of three that also happens to be plus-size, finding vintage in my size can be a tricky. But I found with Cats Like Us not only do I get to shop for retro items but vintage items that run in my size! I cannot tell you how exciting that is. They carry sizes from XS to XXXXL which is a huge size range that is not often found in stores online or brick and mortar.

I have been dabbling into vintage clothing since I was a pre-teen (thanks grandma) and I can tell you that aside from having a wide range of sizes there is nothing better than having a all the information about the item up front and in detail. Cats Like Us not only does that for each piece they sell but if you happen to feel that you have more questions about an item Cats Like Us will answer them for you. Yes, you can actually communicate with them directly via email and they answer back. Talk about excellent customer service. One thing is for sure, when you are spending your money on an item you want to make sure you have answers to your questions before you make a purchase. Cats Like Us will not only respond to you in a timely manner but they are friendly, courteous, and kind.

This vintage dress happens to be one of the prettiest dress I have worn in a long time. I love vintage inspired clothing and retro fashion as well but vintage has always held my heart. The only reason I don't wear more vintage dresses is because of the challenge of finding the right measurements, style, and colors to fit my specific palette. I guess you can say I am picky but for good reason. When you acquire anything vintage you want to make sure it is something that you will love. And I love my dress from Cats Like Us.

With Cats Like Us not only will you find a great selection of retro inspired fashion but also a well catered selection of true vintage pieces. You will find the prices are friendly to your wallet, courteous customer service, and impeccable packaging. If you are looking for a place to find yourself something special to wear or just looking for a one-of-kind vintage piece, Cats Like Us is the place to be.

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