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Classic Cinema Spotlight: Terms of Endearment (1983)

May 16, 2025
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I can somehow cry a river of tears for a video about cats or a grandpa holding hands with his grandbaby but when it comes to films I only have a handful that I have actually sobbed to. I mean a good, deep cry for films like After the Promise (1987), Lady Jane (1986), or Imitation of Life (1959). But there is also another film that never fails to give me a good cry, Terms of Endearment (1983).

It all begins with a mother and her all consuming devotion to her daughter. From the very first scenes Aurora Greenway (Shirley MacLaine) is shown as overprotective with her infant daughter Emma. Through the years they continue to form a close bond especially after the passing of Emma's father (who was voiced by Albert Brooks). Little Emma invites Aurora into her bed because she recognizes that her mother doesn't want to be alone. Its that act that becomes the beginning of their tight knit, semi-clingy relationship. As Emma (Debra Winger) grows up they share all their secrets together with Emma learning how to navigate Aurora's all encompassing commitment to her while still maintaining her own autonomy. 

Emma grows up but is eager to create a life for herself away from her mother. She marries a young college professor named Flap Horton (Jeff Daniels) who Aurora is wary of. She threatens that she won't attend their wedding and she makes good on her word. Despite this Emma and Aurora keep in touch as usual always sharing every part of their lives with each other. Shortly after her wedding Emma gets pregnant with her first child which agitates Aurora who fears getting older. 

Sometime later Emma finds out that Flap got a job in Iowa and begrudgingly has to move. Emma is obviously unhappy to move away from her home in Houston and leave her mother but she does so as the dutiful wife. Even though there is distance between mother and daughter they talk often sharing all their drama and frustration. Life in Iowa proves to be rough for Emma who stays home all day with her children and struggles financially. One day she meets a kind banker named Sam Burns (John Lithgow) while on line to pay for groceries. Emma finds that she doesn't have enough money and Sam graciously offers to pay the difference. Eventually she reaches out to her mother for financial support all the while Aurora urges Emma to leave Flap.

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The stories of both mother and daughter parallel often especially when it comes to their romantic lives. Widowed Aurora is lonely but she surrounds herself with male companions like Vernon Dalhart (Danny DeVito) and Edward Johnson (Norman Bennett) who swoon at her every word but she fears true connection. That is until she unexpectedly pursues her promiscuous astronaut neighbor, Garrett Breedlove (Jack Nicholson). Sparks fly and Aurora lets down her guard long enough to becomes lovers. Emma is fearless with her love towards her husband but easily sacrifices her own individuality to cater to his every need.  That is until she begins to realize that Flap rarely helps out with the children, is completely oblivious to their financial situation, and is having an affair with a grad student. Emma ends up unexpectantly forming a connection with Sam and they finding solace with each other. 

Before Emma and Flap can address the issues in their marriage they find out they are now moving to Nebraska. Back and forth Emma and Flap muddle through life and have a third child. Aurora struggles with Garrett who fears commitment and Emma struggles with the knowledge that her husband who she devoted so much of her own life for moved their family to Nebraska so he could still be with his mistress. Life is messy for Aurora and Emma but they try and support each other the best ways they can even though they often don't see eye to eye. It's in Nebraska that Emma's doctor discovers that Emma has a lump around her breast. Diagnosed with cancer Emma pushes through everything calmly trusting her doctors while Aurora demands better treatment for her daughter.

Patsy (Lisa Hart Carroll), Emma's lifelong friend invites her to explore New York and get away from her martial woes and diagnoses. Emma meets Patsy's friends who are shocked that Emma never worked and was a stay at home mom. Emma finds out that Patsy told everyone she knew about her cancer. Emma facing an unknown future addresses to Patsy that she is not comfortable with the world that she is a part of. When Emma returns home she is told that her cancer is terminal. Aurora and Flap stay by Emma's side while Emma has to decide who gets to care for her three children. Ultimately the dying Emma shows her deep love for her mother by entrusting her children to her care. 

I have watched this film many times at different ages and stages in my life. I decided to rewatch it during this past Mother's Day with my three children who are now teenagers. They have never seen it before and I knew it was a hard subject but it is one that is close to my heart. My own mother died of cancer at 34 years old in 1984. When Emma is talking to her sons because she knows she will pass on soon reminded me of the last time I saw my mother. Although I do not remember a lot, there are some moments that are forever etched into my mind. Viewing it this time around at this particular time in my life I found myself crying especially with the final scenes. Aurora's protective dedication to her daughter reminded me of the way I feel about my kids. Emma's awkward talk with her sons reminded me how sometimes I don't always know what words to use when I am talking to mine. That look of love and knowing between Emma and Aurora just before she passes on-I often find myself giving my children those looks. That unspoken, intimate, deep connection you can have with another person but those people just happen to have grown inside of you once upon a time. This film tells a story about messy people going about life chaotically and imperfectly but always leading with love.

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Classic Cinema Spotlight: Donkey Skin (1970)

May 07, 2025
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“Once upon a time, there was a king so great, so loved by his people, and so respected by neighbouring kingdoms that he was the happiest of monarchs" is how Donkey Skin (1970) begins. A beloved King utterly enamored with his beautiful Queen looking lovingly out their window to admire their equally beautiful daughter. The narrator states that their daughter had such grace and charm that that they never regretted having but one child. The first moments of Donkey Skin (1970)  whisk the viewer immediately into a fairytale land far, far away. 

The fairytale begins with a King (Jean Maraiswalking through his kingdom blissfully happen with his family. He is also fortunate to also have prosperous kingdom all thanks to his prized pet donkey. His donkey is no ordinary pet because he excretes jewels from his body which the King uses to finance his luxurious lifestyle. As perfect as everything seemed to be tragedy found the King when he lost his beloved wife. On her deathbed the Queen (Catherine Deneuve) had the king promise that after her passing he will only marry a woman as beautiful and virtuous as she. In his grief and with the pressure of his advisers he is somehow convinced that woman that he should marry, the woman who could fulfill the promise he made to his wife would be his own daughter.

Now if I lost you there I don't blame you. Aside from this odd situation this film is actually pretty spectacular. But it wouldn't be a fairytale if there wasn't any tragedy or drama. The King's interest in marrying his daughter is as tragic and dramatic as the loss of his wife. In his twisted mind he truly believes he is making good on his promise to his belated Queen. The Princess (Catherine Deneuve) in her own innocent way just wants to make her father happy not fully understanding how disturbing this entire scenario is. Then before things get any weirder in walks the Princess's godmother (Delphine Seyrig) who happens to be a Lilac Fairy. It is the Lilac Fairy (who also seems to have a mysterious past with the King) who brings common sense to the mind of the Princess and tells her that she must never marry her father because it is wrong.

To deter the King from marrying the Princess the Lilac Fairy convinces her to demand a series of seemingly outrageous nuptial gifts in the hope that her father will be forced to give up his plans of marriage. The Princess first asks for a gown that is the color of weather, then for a gown that glows like the moon, and then for a gown that shines brightly like the sun. Somehow all of the gowns are created and the Princess finds herself feeling defeated. The Lilac Fairy comes to the Princess's rescue once again when she suggests that she demand the skin of the King's prized donkey. To the Princess's shock the King presents her with the skin of the donkey that provided the wealth for his kingdom. With the encouragement and support of the Lilac Fairy, the Princess dons the donkey skin and flees father's kingdom to avoid the incestuous marriage.

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Disguised in the donkey skin the Princess finds work at a local kingdom as a pig keeper. There she lives in a tattered hut where she finally feels safe. The Lilac Fairy provided the Princess with a wand where she could change from her nightgown and donkey skin and make her surroundings more to her liking. One day a Prince (Jacques Perrin ) sees her in her hut wearing her sun gown. He is immediately enraptured by her beauty. No longer dirty and wearing her smelly donkey skin, the Princess is looking like her usual stunning self. The Prince falls in love with her at first sight. When he returns to his kingdom he is beside himself with love sickness. He then requests that "Donkey Skin" bake him a cake so that he can be restored to good health. The Princess quickly bakes the Prince a sweet treat and places her ring inside so that he could find it. It is in that discovery that he knows her love is reciprocated. 

With the Prince's parents, the red King (Fernand Ledouxand red Queen (Micheline Presle), loving support and encouragement they decide to invite all the women of the kingdom to try on the ring. That way whoever fits the ring will be the Prince's new bride. Everyone from the very young to the very old make their way to the kingdom and line up according to social status. One by one the Prince tries on the ring and to no avail it fits no one. That is until "Donkey Skin" makes her way to the Prince who puts the ring on her finger and then she magically changes into her Princess self. A royal wedding ensues and they married. The Princess's father surprises the newlywed couple with his own special news. And yes, they all lived happily ever after.

Donkey Skin (1970) is based on Donkeyskin, a 1695 fairy tale by Charles Perrault about a king who wishes to marry his own daughter. The great Jacques Demy directs this extraordinary fairytale and brings to life this captivating story. The film was shot completely in France at various châteaus which gave each location that enchanting look. The color palette that Demy used throughout the film was inspired by Jean Cocteau's "Beauty and the Beast". The film uses a vibrant, watercolor-like palette, evoking the whimsical and fantastical nature of the story. The colors that were used both on costumes (by costume designer Gitt Magrini) and scenes each had a deeper meaning. The blue represented the Princess's kingdom/royalty, red represented the kingdom of the Prince/revolution, white represented innocence/healing/marriage, and purple represented the Lilac Fairy who was a bridge to both kingdoms. The colors used in this film helped to create a fantastical and dreamy atmosphere reflecting a fairytale world.

Jacques Demy created a dreamy world of fantasy that melded romance, tragedy, and taboo-weaving in moments of comedy and musical numbers. That isn't easy feat. Mixing too many genres can oftentimes lead to box office failure. In Demy's case he gave the world of cinema a retelling of a classic fairytale that is an endless feast for the eyes. The film is perfect in every way minus the incest storyline. It is the one part of the film I cannot fall in love with. But if I remove that from my mind for a moment, this film is everything you could wish a fairytale would be. It transports you to another world filled with magic and adventure.

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Classic Cinema Spotlight: The Poseidon Adventure (1972)

May 02, 2025
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When people ask me what my favorite movies are I have to tell them to give me a decade and genre. There really are too many but I can say for sure that The Poseidon Adventure (1972) is on my list of favorites. There is something special about a movie that takes you along on the adventure. This film has its ups and downs-literally and figuratively-but its the characters and the journey they go on that pull me from the beginning to the very end. Rewatching it this time around for my post was extremely bittersweet especially now with the loss of Gene Hackman. Out of the eleven actors from the main cast only two remain-Pamela Sue Martin (Susan Shelby) and Eric Shea (Robin Shelby). I can honestly say I have watched this film many times through the years, even once on the big screen and every time I am completely captivated.

Before the film, The Poseidon Adventure was an American adventure novel written by Paul Gallico and published in 1969. The film itself is one of many disaster films that were made in the 1970's. What set this film apart was the writing. That credit goes to Stirling Silliphant and Wendell Mayes who adapted Gallico's book into a screenplay. The film was then directed by Ronald Neame (Scrooge 1970) who took on the reins of this massive movie and produced by Irwin Allen who also produced The Towering Inferno (1974)

The film begins with conflict between the SS Poseidon's Captain Harrison played by Leslie Nielsen and Mr. Linarcos played by Fred Sadoff. Mr. Linarcos is a representative of the new owners of the ship who is insistent that ship goes full speed despite having issues with the ships ballast (compartment on ship that regulates water and controls buoyancy). The ship was already on its final voyage to become scrap and a undersea earthquake near Greece along with a looming tsunami coming their way could prove disastrous for everyone aboard the SS Poseidon. 

On the days leading the New Year's Eve we get to know more of the main cast of characters such as; Gene Hackman as the Reverend Frank Scott who is a a minister who believes "God helps those who help themselves",  Arthur O'Connell as Chaplain John, Pamela Sue Martin and Eric Shea as Susan and Robin Shelby who are traveling to meet their parents, Ernest Borgnine as Det. Lieutenant Mike Rogo and his wife Linda Rogo-a former prostitute played by Stella Stevens, as well as Mr. Manny Rosen and his wife Belle Rosen played by Jack Albertson and Shelley Winters. On the evening of New Year's we get introduced to Mr. James Martin, a lonely health conscious bachelor played by Red Buttons, Nonnie Parry, a singer played by Carol Lynley, and Acres, a waiter played by Roddy McDowall.

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While the festivities of the New Year's celebrations are happening the ships Captain receives a warning. Before the Captain can do much of anything the ship is hit broadside and capsizes, floating upside-down because of a combination of the lack of the ships ballast, the condition of the ship, and the tsunami. Suddenly everyone on board goes from celebrating the New Year to being flung upside down in sheer horror. Afterwards Reverend Scott begins to take stock of the situation and makes a decision (thanks to the good idea given by Mr. Martin & Robin) that the safest place to be would be the ships hull. The ships purser tells everyone that this is a mad idea but Acres, Mr. and Mrs. Rosen, Rogo and his wife Linda, Nonnie, Mr. Martin, and Susan and Robin Shelby all decide to climb up the Christmas tree and follow Reverend Scott to the ships hull.

That one decision sets everything in motion for this group of ten survivors. Reverend Scott is a deep believer that one should help themselves as God would want them too-is utterly convinced that if they stay put they will most certainly die. As soon as they all reach the top more explosions happen and the dining room full of the other survivors including Reverend Scott's good friend Chaplain John, all perish when water begins to fill the room and the ship begins to sink. 

Reverend Scott's group begins to move toward the hull hoping that they can find a way out. The group climbs a ventilation shaft, enters a flooded engine room, participates in underwater swimming, deals with multiple mini explosions, and enters a dangerous propeller shaft. All the while they are challenged to survive even when some are lost along the way. Any more details about what happens will take away the experience of watching these characters brave the horror of trying to survive in a sinking ship. 

Watching what each character goes through and how they manage to move forward hoping that they will find their way out of this nightmare is what makes this film truly an adventure. This film was shot in sequence which is rare in the movie making world. You witness the characters go from glitzy to down trodden which makes it all the more believable. Amazingly all of the actors in this film did most of their own stunts. Ernest Borgnine once said in an interview that this was the most physically demanding movie he ever did. The Poseidon Adventure (1972)  is one of my favorite films because takes you on an emotional journey that has many moments of bittersweetness which make this movie utterly unforgettable. 

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