Showing posts with label Helpful Tips & Tutorials. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Helpful Tips & Tutorials. Show all posts

Guide to Making Travel Easier

April 07, 2023


This February I visited one of my besties for a few days in Florida. I was able to spend much needed time with her as well as spend time with my brother who moved there a few years ago. I haven't traveled on my own since my last visit to England in 2016. I didn't know how it was going to be. I was a bit worried because of all the horrible flight videos I saw on social media. My anxiety went through the roof. I don't have anxiety for normal day-to-day life but when it comes to living with my disability, I do.

I try and learn from the things that worked and the things that didn't from any trip I take whether it is a day trip, a few days, or more than a few days. I also take into account who I am traveling with, how long I am staying, the budget I have, the weather, and what activities I am planning to do.

Here are some tips to help make traveling a little bit easier for you especially if you have a physical disability or are traveling with children:

  • Do a lot of research: find the best prices for your budget, make a list of the things you want to do, find out what time things open and close, find places to eat that you or your family would like, etc. Write it all down somewhere. It will help you on your trip tremendously.
  • Add apps to your phone: Add apps to your phone that would aid you on your trip. Add maps, translation, or museum apps. Why not use the technology that you have to help you.
  • Traveling internationally: Get the best price for you cash when you exchange it, get a debit card you can use in lieu of cash, get a SIM card for your phones for the country you are in, and get a international power adaptor. 
  • Wheelchair access: Contact the airport and airlines that you are using and get your hands on a wheelchair. If you have challenges with walking like I do or other health issues, use this service. It will help immensely. 
  • Pack smart: Take into account the weather, what activities you are doing, and how long you are staying. Pack what you need and maybe one extra of everything. I personally don't like to buy something that I could take with me because I don't like to waste time or money shopping for what I could have taken from home. Pick a color palette for your outfits so that you can interchange pieces easily and pack less. Keep some space in your luggage for items you purchased on your trip.
  • Essential pieces: Pick a cross body handbag and a light jacket that could go with all the outfits you plan to wear. I prefer a cross body bag because you can keep it in front of you--just make sure it has zippers.
  • Bring what you really need: If you need a rollator or a cane, put your pride aside and take it with you. You might need these walking aids and you should take any risks with your health or well-being. 
  • Plan carefully but be open to adventure: Find something to everyone to enjoy but be open to discovering new things. 

How to Destress with Panic Pete

January 12, 2021

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These days we are all feeling the affects of the stress. Each of us are attempting to deal with it the best way we can especially within a quarantine environment. We take walks when we can, watch a good movie, drink a cup of hot tea, or listen to music, all as a means to destress. 

This is where a little fella called Panic Pete comes into play. Give him a good squeeze and his eyes, nose, and ears all pop out. I mean adding one to your list of destressers is not a bad idea given he's cute, retro, affordable, and gets the job done. Think of him as the ultimate stress ball. I scored mine recently at Bobb Howard's General Store which is a local retro candy shop that doesn't just have a selection of nostalgic treats but also nostalgic toys and gifts. 

These days I'm trying to add in as much fun and cuteness into my life as I can. Panic Pete does the trick for me. Have you ever used stress balls to destress? 


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4 Tips on How to Take Care of Your Vintage Magazines

April 06, 2020
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I always get asked how do I take care of my vintage magazines. I have magazines that range from the 1930's to the present. I even have all of my teen magazines from the 1980's. Sadly, a lot of magazines are no longer being published. Because many of these magazines are rare and very old, we should try and take care of them. I feel like vintage magazines are pieces of history and they should be preserved as best as possible.

So how can you take care of your vintage magazines? Here are some tips that helped me:

  • Keep them in an organized manner. I tend to stack each of mine right side up then right side down until I have all of them stacked. 
  • Store them in a cool, dry area. A good place would be your basement or a closet.
  • If they are not on a shelf, store them in a plastic bin. A cardboard box would be easily penetrable to insects and dampness.
  • Place them in clear plastic dust jackets. 

If you are looking for some good vintage magazines these are my recommendations; Good Housekeeping. Life, Teen, Seventeen, Women’s Day, and Photoplay. And if you are looking for places where you can buy some vintage magazines other than Etsy and Ebay, check out Wolfgang's and Joe's Paper Shack.



6 Tips on Balancing Creativity and Motherhood

February 27, 2020
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How did the ladies in the sixties handle their home and kids on a daily basis and attempt to pursue creativity? I think it must have been as challenging for them then as it is now. I think women today are juggling even more than women fifty plus years ago. And the biggest challenging for those of us who have pursued a family life and a career or creative pursuits is keeping it all balanced. And let's be honest, it is not easy.

When I went to do some shoots recently at the TWA Hotel I decided to bring along all three of my children and my husband for support. They never saw this location and I wanted to share it with them. I didn't take into account that my husband was exhausted from his intense work week and I didn't pack things to keep the children occupied because I assumed I would be done quickly. I was wrong.

I thought a lot about that day. I can say that for three kids they behaved pretty well. They weren't running around like maniacs or screaming or bothering each other. But at some point during the day I felt completely overwhelmed with paying attention to them and their needs and trying to figure out my next photo shoot. I not only got mentally blocked but I just felt utterly defeated at one point.

What I realized and learned that day is that it isn't easy for me to shut myself off from mommying and then switch roles to focus on being a vintage nerd. I realized that going back and forth from the two is very challenging because both are very important to me. Its important that I am always available and aware of my children and their needs and it is important for me to express myself as a creative.

So I put together a few tips that I learned the hard way. I have not perfected this process by any means. But I have become more aware of the challenges of balancing my two worlds and with a lot of patience I will work through them.

Here are 6 Tips on how I balance creativity and motherhood:

Bring a friend or your spouse for support. They can keep an extra eye on the kids and keep them in line.

Pack things in a bag for them. Pack snacks, water, and activities for them. That way there is a slim chance you will hear, "I'm hungry" or "I'm bored" while you are in the middle of a shoot or a painting.

Give yourself a certain time frame to be done. Timing creativity makes creating 1,000 times more challenging. If you are like me, I enjoy the process of creativity flowing and moving through me. When you are on a schedule it makes allowing that so much more difficult but children need a time frame because otherwise they can get antsy and then drive you nuts. When that happens creativity escapes the room and leaves because it cannot flourish in a chaotic environment.

Explain to the kids what are you are trying to do. That way they can get a visual of your plan and also feel like they are a part of your creative process.

Give your children a job to do that can actually help you move the creative process along. They can take your photos for you, help you bring props to your shoots, pass paints and brushes to you,  carry your gear for you, etc. Whatever it is that you are working on, if you include them in a small way to be your little helpers it really makes them feel like they are a part of this special work.

Take lots of deep breathes. Try to keep your patience. Keep everyone informed of your needs and concerns. Communication is important.

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Beauty Tips: Aging Grace-Fully

January 21, 2020
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Who wouldn't mind aging gracefully like Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn? They were timeless beauties who refrained from surgical enhancements and took care of their skin the old fashioned way. 

Let's be honest, women go through a lot of changes in their lives that do affect the quality of their skin. Aside from genetics and lifestyle we also have to take into account pregnancies, life as a mom, busy schedules, illness, and menopause to name a few. Taking care of our skin can be a gift we give to ourselves after all the things we do in a single day. 

I put together a little list that might help you preserve the beauty that is you. Is there anything else you would add to this list?

  1. Genetics: I must point out that the way many people age can be due to genetics. Some people look super young in their 50's and some people don't. With that said-its the luck of the draw. Some of us will get a little help from our genes and some of us not too much. Whichever it may be, just embrace it because that cannot be changed (unless you go under the knife).
  2. STAY OUT OF THE SUN: One of the biggest ways we can damage and age our skin is by overexposure to the sun. You shouldn't sun bathe for hours or go to a tanning booth every week. Its just plain suicide for your skin. We do shed our skin but yearly overexposure to sunlight in large doses will just put your skin in danger. You can get sun spots, discoloration, severe dryness, and wrinkles just to name a few. If you are outside at all, put sunscreen on all the time and wear hats.
  3. Drink LOTS of water: Our bodies are mostly made up of water so hydrate it! Soda and juices just have lots of sugar in it. Choose water  because its the only drink that truly quenches the thirst.
  4. Know your skin: Know what type of skin you have so you know how to moisturize it. I have normal to dry skin and its sensitive. So I wash my face everyday, moisturize in the morning and evening, and I try and use as many "for sensitive skin" products as possible with SPF.
  5. Beauty Regime: Treat your skin to facials, body scrubs, and massages. It does the body good. You don't need to do it every month but once in a while is a nice treat. Also, create a beauty regime for yourself. If you know you skin type and its needs try and get products that will help you as you go throughout your busy day. Exfoliate twice a week, moisturize day and night, underage creams, and weekly masks. Create regime that works for you and for your skin. 
  6. Wearing Makeup :  Wear makeup as an enhancer not as something to completely cover you up. Try and refrain from wearing makeup when you can. Let your skin breathe. And never go to sleep with your makeup on.
  7. Get a check up: Make an appointment with a Dermatologist. It's always good to know what is going on with your skin and to tend to that.
  8. Feed your face: Eat good foods because it does show up on your skin. If your diet is made up of greasy fast food you will tend to have breakouts and your skin will look unhealthy. Try and eat some fruit and veggies during the day. Stay away from soda and too much junk food. Remember your skin is the largest organ on your body!
  9. What you put in will come out: Heavy smoking, drinking, and taking drugs isn't good for your body, period. Smoking will dry out your skin and make it look grey and pasty. Drinking will make your skin look bloated and heavy. Drugs will age you prematurely and destroy your skin. What you put into your body will show itself on your skin, period.
  10. Gym time: Do some sort of exercise for your overall health. Whether its walking, jogging, swimming.....just sitting around isn't good for anyone. Get up and do something-you will be tired at first but eventually it will help you feel better.
  11. Live life fully but with caution: There are some folks who have lived hard lives and you can see it clearly on their faces. Some people cannot escape that reality but others may have more choices. If you are one who has choices then live your life fully but do not put yourself in possible dangerous situations-in the end it all affects you.

Aging Grace-Fully was first published on a Bunny's Victory. It has now been edited and updated since then. All contents are my own and owned by A Vintage Nerd.

7 Easy Tips on How I Created My Personal Style

April 17, 2019
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People often ask me how did I figure out my style and why do I wear what I wear. The truth is it took me a while to figure out my current style. Keep in mind that style is like most things, it has its ebbs and flows. I started out by wearing true vintage from head to toe and I had a lot of fun with it. That is until I realized it really didn't suit my lifestyle, my budget, or my current state of mind. 

These days I blend true vintage pieces with modern vintage inspired pieces and retro pieces for good measure. I mix it all up and I stick to two simple rules I have given myself: it has to be pleasing to my eyes and it has to be comfy. If the aesthetic of the colors or pieces don't make me feel good then I will not wear it. I also have a color palette that I stick to. My main colors are red, green, and blue. My secondary colors are white, black, grey, and occasionally yellow. 

Having a color palette and sticking to my two rules allows me to to mix and match my pieces easily while always feeling both cute and comfy in what I am wearing. I cannot deny that wearing true vintage makes me feel amazing but I also have found it challenging to wear true vintage while out with my family. My children are young and active and I wanted to create a style for myself that felt true to my love of vintage all the while versatile enough so that I can join family activities without feeling like I was overdressed or going to destroy a vintage piece.

My last tip is to remember to have fun. If you aren't enjoying the process and it becomes too overwhelming then take a step back. Look through what you already have and play around with it some more. 

My Tips on How I Created My Own Personal Style:

1- Understand that style will come in its ebbs and flows
2- Be open to change and to working with where you are in your 
life at that given moment
3- Work with your budget and lifestyle, not against it
4-Try blending vintage pieces with modern pieces. 
Play around with the various types of fashion out there.
5- Create a color palette for yourself. What are the colors that look best on you and 
that you love. Choose three main colors and a few secondary colors.
6- Think cute and comfy. It should be pleasing to your eye all the while being 
incredibly comfortable. If you aren't comfortable with what you are wearing then it will show.
7- Have fun with experimenting with fashion.

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Outfit: Plaid Dress from Modcloth, Blue Cardigan from Gap, Beret from Forever 21, 
Gold Loop Earrings from JCrew, and Heart Key Necklace from Cats Like Us


Inspired But Tired: 6 Tips To Keep Your Inspiration Flowing

April 11, 2018
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Keeping your inspiration juices flowing is a tricky business especially when we are juggling so much on a daily basis. So how can we keep our inspiration muses happy when we are just so darn tired all the time? I am going to share what has worked for me and hope that it may help you keep inspiration at your fingertips.

  • Purge. Keep your home environment clean and happy. Get rid of piles and clutter. Having a comfy home environment will allow you to keep a clearer head. A disorganized home will just bog you down and drain all the creativity out of you. I know you're tired but if you're able to put in the extra time to do this it will make a huge difference, I promise you.
  • After you have cleaned and purged your home, car, office....throw in some inspirational items. Freshen up your bedroom with a new set of sheets, get some potted plants or flowers to brighten your space, and add items that bring positivity to you and those around you. It could be books of quotes, pretty pictures to hang on the walls, or sweet smelling candles. Surrounding yourself with things that make you smile and it will help keep you centered and focused.
  • Hitting a wall and not able to edit one more picture or write one more paragraph? Play music that makes you feel joyful and blast it. Don't want to disturb the neighbors, then blast it in your headphones. Pick any Bee-Gees song and your mood will brighten up within minutes.
  • We love vintage. We gravitate to all things old and sometimes dusty but by golly we love old stuff. Go to your local flea market, grab tickets to one of Fathom Events TCM Film Series specials and see Rebel Without A Cause on the big screen, take a morning trip to your favorite vintage shop, or pop in a dvd of a classic film that you know will put a smile on your face no matter how many times you see it (one of mine is The Women).
  • Rummage through your closet closely and see if there is something you haven't worn in a while and wear it. All dressed up with no place to go? Its okay. Sometimes just dolling up and getting yourself all extra pretty will make you feel good and your inspirational muse may just make a visit.
  • Lastly, just go. Just slap on that lipstick and put your favorite outfit on and go out and take some pictures. Lots of times I am not in the mood to dress up or I have to figure out how to juggle the kids with taking pictures but what I have done lately is just doll up, grab the kids, and head to the park. I hand over my phone to my daughter who proceeds to snap about 10-25 photos. I look through them and mark my favorites and I am done. I spend about 10-20 minutes on a shoot and the kids are having a blast running around the park and everyone goes home having done something fun. 

I hope these tips help a little. I know how hard it can be to keep yourself inspired and in positive spirits but try some of these tips out. They may just help. What do you do to keep yourself inspired?

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