I started journaling at the age of nine back in 1985. I still have most of my journals. That first one sadly perished in a house fire but I still remember feeling the excitement of writing in it and sharing all about my secret crush. It feels so special to be able to look back on your life in such detail because of the gift of journaling. 

Here are 6 benefits from journaling:

1. Connect with yourself-create a dialogue with yourself and connect with who you are and who you want to be.

2. Discover  the world around you-writing down the things you experience reconnects you to yourself and the world around you.

3. Boost your memory-it can help you remember your experiences long after you have written them down.

4. Boost emotional intelligence-you are able to work out your feelings about things and gain a deeper understanding to what you are feeling.

5. Reduces stress-writing things down can help you vent out everything you are feeling and going through.

6. Inspires creativity-you can list ideas or flush them out while you are writing.

Some of my favorites were the Lite-Brite and Simon Says because I used to play those toys as a little kid. The toys I wished I had from this list are; are the Game Boy and a VCR because I think as a teen it would be cool to watch a tape with the VCR and play video games with the Game Boy. Which of these vintage gifts would you want for Christmas?

From the 1950's:

Transistor Radio Set (1954)

Portable Turntable (1955)

Hula Hoop (1958)

A Princess Phone (1959)

From the 1960's:

Barbie Dreamhouse (1962)

Twister (1966)

Lite-Brite (1967)

Operation (1969)

From the 1970's:

Atari (1972)

Hippity Hop Ball (1973)

Air Hockey (1974)

Simon Says (1978)

From the 1980s:

Nintendo Entertainment System (NES) (1986)

Game Boy (1989)

VCR (debuted in 1976 but became really popular by 1985)

Teen Steam VHS (1988)

Now that I am a little bit older my mom doesn't pick out my Halloween costumes for me anymore. Instead she asks me what I want to be and I usually tell her that I don't know. There is so much to choose from that it can be a little bit overwhelming. 

I love Halloween and I love looking at pictures so I thought I would share with you some everyday vintage Halloween costumes that might help you with your costume. Looking at these old pictures helped me to figure out what I was going to be. I also included a picture of my mom when she was little on Halloween. Let me know which one you think she is and which ones are your favorite. I think I like the last one best which is a vampire girl from the 1960's. Happy Halloween!

I love all the vintage and retro reproductions my mother has in her closet. I asked her to keep everything she has so I can try them on later. When I was getting my outfit ready for my first day of school I started to think about what teens liked to wear for their back-to-school style years ago. I found a few pictures for inspiration of back-to-school styles that I would definitely wear.

I really like the cute sweaters and the long, flowing skirts in the 1950's, the big collars and mini skirts in the 1960's, the bell bottom jeans and their cute tops in the 1970's, and the pastel jumpers in the 1980's. The reasons I like these specific outfits is because I think these outfits look really comfortable to wear to school. I would wear these vintage outfits even if it wasn't for school. My personal favorites are the 1970's and 1980's outfits because it's simple but cute.  I also think it would be easy to wear if I wanted to go somewhere to hang out with my friends.

Here are my favorite back-to-school vintage looks from the 1950's-1980's:

Here are some classic teen movies and my reflections after I watched them:

Rebel without a Cause (1955)

Rebel with a Cause (1955) is the kind of teen movie that shows that kids can be misunderstood especially if they do not get enough guidance or attention from their parents. This movie tells the story of three different teens who have their own individual issues. The one thing they all seem to have in common is that their parents don't seem to understand them or acknowledge their struggles. Somehow they all come together and eventually hangout and bond. Tragedy strikes when one of them dies and leaves the other two devastated since they were like a family to each other. 

This movie shows on how the kids feel misunderstood by their parents and adults. It also shows how even though they feel disconnected from their own families, they were able to find a family with each other. This movie can remind teens today that it is normal to feel lonely, normal to not feel like you fit in with your family, or to be frustrated by your parents not understanding you. It reminded me how important it is to share how to feel to a trusting adult and how grateful I am that I can talk to my parents when I am feeling wonky inside.

Splendor in the Grass (1961)

Splendor in the Grass (1961) is about two deeply in love teenagers and how like and other people get in the way of their relationship. It wasn't just another lover who got in the way of their love, but it was their parent's expectations and their unfulfilled dreams that they pushed on their children (Deanie and Bud). As more and more pressure weighs on their love for one another, Deanie eventually starts to break down. Out of desperation her parents put her in a mental hospital. It ends up being the best place for Deanie and it helped her health. When she finally gets out she is healthier and has found someone she can settle with. Deanie feels like she has to face her past and see Bud only to find that he also settles with someone else. They split ways and go back with their lives far away from each other even though they both know that they still feel the love that they had before everything came crashing down. It was a very bittersweet ending.

This movie shows that without the help of adults and good advice things can become a confused mess. The movie also shows teen depression, both of Deanie and Bud but they show it in different ways. They both try to get some help but nobody wants to listen to them so it gets bottled up inside. Deanie's character can show teens today that it is okay to get help when you need it. For example, when Deanie is in the mental hospital, she says to her mother when she visits that she wasn't ashamed of being in the hospital. Bud finds his peace with a simple life and a family away from everything he grew up with. It taught me that sometimes life doesn't always go the way you plan it and sometimes you have to make the best of it.

Over the Edge (1979)

Over The Edge (1979) is about young teens living in the suburbs at a new town development. Even though the town is great, the teens are beyond bored because they only have one place to really hang out in. The clashing between the adults, the laws, and the children gets worse and worse especially after Richie White (Matt Dillion) is killed by Sgt. Doberman. When that happens the rest of the teen acted on revenge against all of the adults in town who are in the school for a meeting. They lock up the building, trash the school, and burn cars as an act of rebellion. Carl (Michael Kramer) whose story we follow through the movie ends up realizing that none of those acts of revenge and rebellion will make a difference. He eventually gives himself in end and leaves with a bunch of the other teens who destroyed the town on a bus to a juvenile detention center.

This movie shows that there can be problems even in the nicest, newest towns. It also showed that when teens are bored or angry that they can rebel in destructive ways.  I also think this movie shows the differences between teens and adults and how their opinions that can clash together possibly cause chaos. I was reminded that it is important not to stay bored and always do things to keep busy and creative. That teen rebellion isn't always the best way to act out and violence never solves anything.

Heathers (1988)